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Questions About Life’s Purpose And Life Partners

Myron Golden

1.43M subscribers

37.8K views · 2 days ago

DON’T MARRY THAT WOMAN | Questions About Life’s Purpose And Life Partners Choosing a life partner is one of the biggest decisions you can make. The person you marry can influence your family, your future, your purpose, and the direction of your life. In this powerful message, Myron Golden explores important questions about life purpose and choosing a life partner. He explains why understanding your purpose and knowing what you value are essential when considering who you will build your life with. The core idea is simple but powerful: Before choosing a life partner, you need to understand the purpose and direction of your own life. You’ll learn: Why understanding your purpose matters when choosing a life partner Important questions to ask before entering a marriage How your values can affect your relationship and future Why compatibility goes beyond attraction How the right partnership can support your purpose The importance of shared principles and direction Why you should think beyond the present when choosing a spouse Biblical principles behind marriage, purpose, wisdom, and partnership This message will help you think more intentionally about relationships, marriag

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Overwhelmingly appreciative, with fans calling the session impactful and quoting lines back, plus a few sincere follow up questions and one complaint about audience laughter.

KyleJWhiethurst

2 days ago

The brother with question number one I guarantee you, he truly been thinking about his question to Myron for years because he literally put together the perfect question. Props to him.👏🏽🙌🏽👏🏽🙌🏽✊🏾

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williamenzor6392

2 days ago

If there is no enemy within, the enemy without can't do you no harm

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BurnaBwoi

2 days ago

Why are those people laughing when that brother is genuinely trying to find purpose in life, a good woman, and a good wife? Smh 0:46

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Ricky31628580

2 days ago

Myron is definitely Golden 🔥

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SuccesswithLatoya

2 days ago

The title and thumbnail to this video definitely had me like Let’s Go… 💪🏾 and God definitely reveals a lot of minds curiosity through God’s Wisdom and kingdom people. Note pad ready.

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NadiaSiddiquii

2 days ago

The thumbnail stopped me in my tracks lol

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gitgenlove

2 days ago

As naval says you're going to fix the world but you home is broken.

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ABBAMYRON

2 days ago

WHICH IS WHY I STARTED SAYING PEACE TO MY CHILDREN INSTEAD OF WHAT'S UP!

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TonyAurice

2 days ago

This was really good and had a lot of different topics in this one but that quote life doesn't give u grades just upgrades and downgrades that hits home

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RIVERROOT88

2 days ago

Thanks!

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ABBAMYRON

2 days ago

$40,000 AN HOUR!!!

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iamdevonnicholeknighton

2 days ago

Peace and blessings, family❤❤

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shayroc04

2 days ago

Gaslighting is part of the creation of a LIEdenity

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ABBAMYRON

2 days ago

GOD'S GRAND RISING TO US ALL... PEACE, LOVE AND NAPPINESS!!!

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ABBAMYRON

2 days ago

HOW DO YOU KNOW WHICH PROBLEM TO SOLVE!?!?

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chukwuanthony8662

1 day ago

First time commentator. And this is the most impactful session for me. Myron is indeed Golden

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ryansantiago9838

1 day ago

So glad he made a video on this I was literally thinking when he was gonna do this

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kingkole6179

2 days ago

I’m happy to be this early to a video.

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iamministerebube

2 days ago

Such a good word

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curryvision2020

2 days ago

Thank You!!!!

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aglo8252

1 day ago

Hello Myron, I've been binge watching you since I discovered you about 4 days ago 😅. I am now doing or in the process of putting together something really good. Fantastic or what? I'm 65 this year..no sloutch that's for sure..❤😊 I've always been a problem silver. " Just let being you be enough❤. Had to tell ya..🎉

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CoachMarcusJones

2 days ago

Excellent session

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csrlovessar

1 day ago

JANIS your skills are useful and profitable and ppl pay for them AND movement improves mental wellness (and brain function and physicality). Consider how to combine them- they actually work together 💃🏾 🕺🏾

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JeremiahVentures

2 days ago

Great video Myron. could you please answer my question from last video. Thank you.

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TruthWillprevail13

1 day ago

🕊️🌹Lord Jesus hear my prayers. At times I want to give up I suffer from lupus and heart disease so please grant me strength. I have two beautiful sons both have special needs. My husband is with you. I’m alone. Each month is a struggle. Lord give me courage and comfort me as I struggle to provide daily necessities for my sons.

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b.gratitude

2 days ago

Mr. Golden! Do you have any books you recommend on communicating?

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khanfidencemusic

2 days ago

You’ve been talking straight to me for the last week sir 💎👑🪽 thank you.

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MindBodyCoachTheresa

2 days ago

Amazing topic amazing answers 🙏🏼❤️

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T-rentDavis

1 day ago

11:03 My old marine buddy you to say "never match wits with a half wit, they'll beat you down everytime lol. 16:33 The beautiful part of your answer to Sofia is her success credentials can slide up and down according to who's on the other side of her conversation. Perfect scripture. 👏

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MrJPegues

2 days ago

Those FB myhop videos are still some of my favorites 37:09

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In short

A live Q&A where Myron Golden takes questions on finding purpose, choosing a spouse, humility versus status games, and why you should start a business from the marketplace rather than from your own skills. He also covers how he uses AI to write sales copy, his $40,000-an-hour rate as a decision filter, and why nobody is incapable of learning.

Chapters

Key points

01
Yield to purpose before you know it
He says people try to discover purpose when they should first yield to God's design for their life, so that when it shows up they aren't resisting it.
02
What a man should look for in a wife
First, someone yielded to God, because if she can't yield to God she won't yield to you; second, someone obsessed with honesty, because a wife's primary responsibility is to be someone her husband's heart can safely trust. The rest is Proverbs 31.
03
Gaslighting loses power when identity is settled
You don't need to stop anyone discrediting you; recognize who you are and operate from that person and all their noise becomes irrelevant.
04
Humility is not shrinking yourself
Humility is identifying who you are and not making yourself bigger than that, but also not smaller, because false humility is just a status game.
05
Start the business out there, not in here
Don't build around what you already know how to do; scan the marketplace for a big pool of people with a big problem and deep enough pockets, then learn the skill to solve it.
06
A premium hourly rate as a filter
His minimum rate is $40,000 an hour, which gives him a number to evaluate every task against, including mowing the lawn or fixing a toilet.

Lines worth keeping

“If it ain't worth doing right, it ain't worth doing at all.”
His parents' line, and the standard he says would change what you do every day if you truly believed it.
“There's no fulfillment in being obsessed with being served. There's only fulfillment in obsessed with being of service.”
The character trait he says to look for in a partner and to build in yourself.
“Don't write the book you've always wanted to write. Write the book everybody's always wanted to read.”
The cleanest summary of his market-first approach to building an offer.
“Life doesn't give you grades. It just gives you upgrades or downgrades, but it doesn't give you grades.”
His answer to people who are afraid to learn something new.
“I'm talking about understanding the value of time that you can't get back and money that you can.”
The reasoning behind outsourcing errands rather than doing them yourself.

What to do next

1
Read scripture looking for orders from headquarters, not to check a box.
The one who created you for today knows better than you what you should be doing today.
2
Stop playing status games and let who you are be enough.
Making yourself look smaller or claiming you don't care about money is a bid for others' opinion you can never verify.
3
Scan the marketplace for the biggest problem with deep enough pockets before choosing your offer.
Starting from what you already know limits you, while obsessing over a market's problem makes them unable to buy from anyone else.
4
Set a premium minimum hourly rate and evaluate every task against it.
It gives you a number to decide whether to do something yourself or pay someone else to do it.
5
List everything you have learned since you were a newborn who couldn't hold your own head up.
Looking in the rearview mirror of your learning is enough evidence that there is nothing you can't learn.

Mentioned in this video

ScriptureProverbs 31He points there for the remaining characteristics to look for in a wife: industrious, hardworking, service-oriented.
BookMillion-Dollar Habits by Robert J. RingerHe recommends it and highlights the first habit, the reality habit: working with things the way they are rather than how you wish they were.
PersonWill RogersCredited with the line about never arguing with an idiot because they bring you down to their level and beat you with experience.
PersonMartin Luther KingCited as someone who changed others by refusing to accept their opinion of him, without trying to change them.
BookThe 16-Word Sales LetterHis preferred format for sales copy, which he has trained his AI to write in.
ScripturePhilippians 2 (Let this mind be in you)He quotes it at length to define humility as Christ recognizing who he was while showing up as a servant.
ToolInstacartHe discovered it a month ago after a guest ordered groceries and hasn't been to a grocery store since.
EventClickFunnels Funnel Hacking LiveAn audience member says she started following him in 2017 because of it.

This video answers

?How do I discover my purpose, and is it innate or something I grow into?
?What should I look for in a wife or life partner?
?Should I build my business around my existing skills or around what the market wants?
?How do I talk about my results without feeling like I'm being arrogant?
?What do I do about people gaslighting, discrediting or excluding me?

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Instagram Reels5:12–5:54 · 42s
“If she can't yield to God, she won't yield to you”
A direct, quotable answer to the universal question of what to look for in a partner, delivered with humor and conviction.
Married 41 years. Here's the first thing he tells men to look for in a wife.
YouTube Shorts23:41–24:26 · 45s
“Stop starting your business with what you already know”
It flips the standard 'follow your passion' advice with a concrete 12-month wealth path and a painful truth delivered live.
Don't build from what you know. Build from what the marketplace is screaming for.
LinkedIn32:22–33:15 · 53s
“My minimum hourly rate is $40,000 an hour”
A shocking number plus an unapologetic filter for clients makes it instantly debatable and shareable.
He set his hourly rate at $40,000 so every decision in his life has a number to measure against.